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    • Cries From a Dark Pit

      Posted at 7:00 am by sneuhofer, on June 18, 2018

      Hebrews 5: 7 – 10 (MSG)  While he lived on earth, anticipating death, Jesus cried out in pain and wept in sorrow as he offered up priestly prayers to God. Because he honored God, God answered him. Though he was God’s Son, he learned trusting-obedience by what he suffered, just as we do. Then, having arrived at the full stature of his maturity and having been announced by God as high priest in the order of Melchizedek, he became the source of eternal salvation to all who believingly obey him.

      You’re in, what seems like, the deepest and darkest place in your life. You call out to Jesus, only to feel like He didn’t hear you at all?

      You make your plea…perhaps it starts something like this:
      • Why do I feel like I’m at the bottom of a pit and can’t find my way out?
      • Lord why is this happening to me? Why is my marriage failing?
      • Why is my child raging?
      • Why am I slowly dying of this incurable disease?
      • Why am I losing my job?
      • Why I feel all alone?
      • Why…why…why?

      I’ve made these types of cries to the Lord and have felt at times that He just wasn’t listening. I’ve even wondered at times why God didn’t answer my prayer…OR…did He answer, and I was unwilling to be obedient to the answer He gave? [OUCH!]

      When Jesus walked this earth, he also faced struggles and trials. He stepped out of his perfect heaven, emptied himself (Philippians 2:7) and took on the form of a human. Why? To show us how to live, treat others, and most importantly be obedient to the will of God even if it’s not the path we would choose for ourselves. In Matthew 26:39 Jesus cries out to his Father in the Garden of Gethsemane to spare Him from what was ahead – death on the cross.

      Going a little ahead, he fell on his face, praying, “My Father, if there is any way, get me out of this. But please, not what I want. You, what do you want [emphasis mine]?”

      In this verse, we see just one example of Jesus’s complete obedience even when he was staring death in the face. As Christians, we are to follow His example. Hanging on the cross, Jesus could have called 10,000 angels to spare him the pain and anguish… but he didn’t. Obedience to the Father was more important to him than his comfort. He knew God had a plan for his life and he had to follow the plan.

      God knew what was on the other side of the cross.

      Similarly, God knows what’s on the other side of our crisis. He knows the plans He has for us. Just look at He promise in Jeremiah 29:11 – 14 (MSG)

      I know what I’m doing. I have it all planned out—plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for. “When you call on me, when you come and pray to me, I’ll listen. “When you come looking for me, you’ll find me. Yes, when you get serious about finding me and want it more than anything else [emphasis mine], I’ll make sure you won’t be disappointed.” God’s Decree.

      He hears our prayers and cares about the intimate details of our lives. Putting our trust and hope in the things of this world will leave us high and dry every time. But when we place our trust in God, we know that through every crisis we are learning to be more obedient to God and the plans He has for our lives.

      Father, help me! Help me see this current crisis as another way to become more like your Son. Help me to learn how to respond to things the way Jesus would have responded to things when He walked this earth. Help me to remember the promises in your word and to put them into practice when I feel like I don’t know what to do next. Help me Lord to “cast all my cares on you” because I know you love me more than I can even comprehend. Also, help me remember to look to you as the sole source of my strength instead of getting wrapped up in the circumstances around me. I trust you Lord, help me obediently trust you even more during this season of my life.

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    • Are you heart-sick?

      Posted at 8:00 am by sneuhofer, on May 30, 2018

      Proverbs 13:12 (ESV) “Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a desire fulfilled is the tree of life. “

      When I was working a regular 8 to 5 job outside of the house, I used to wake up between 4:30 and 5 to have my quiet time with the Lord. I know what you must be thinking… 4:30… AM???  The cows aren’t even up yet!!!  But for me, the morning is the best time for me to hear God’s voice. It is also the absolute best way for me to start my day…. filling my “tank” with love from the Father. Believe me…everyone benefits from me having my quiet time first! Truthfully…I am a better person to be around.

      Anyway, one morning about 8 years ago, my son had other plans for my morning routine. He accidentally wet the bed and was up in full force at 4:10…  UGH! 4:30 is one thing but 4:10 that was entirely too early. After cleaning him and his bed, I turned the TV on got him his traditional breakfast of muffins and milk. I had high hopes of returning to my quiet time so I tried to read Proverbs 13 through one time. Of course the operative word in that last sentence is tried. But the “damage” had been done and my morning routine was out of sorts. I found myself thinking “this is hopeless.” I had my owned agenda for the morning; I wanted to spend time in the word and then the few minutes I had writing. I also felt hopeless over the fact that my typical morning had been messed up.

      When I arrived at work that very same morning I found the office empty. I decided to read back over Proverbs 13. I could definitely relate to the words in verse 12 “Hope deferred makes the heart sick.” My morning routine had been messed up and I had given up all hope that I would find time to have my quiet time and write. A series of thoughts crossed my mind “how I am supposed to start my day off on the right foot when I can’t have my quiet time?”  My mind raced as the thoughts ballooned from there.

      Is anyone relating to me right now?

      That morning at my office, God spoke in the quietness there… “how many times do you actually get to have the extra bit of time with Niko?”

      Ouch! That STUNG!

      Yes my apple cart might have gotten upset, but it’s only one morning. When my son called for me to come and sit with him, I closed my Bible and enjoyed the extra time I had with him.  I have often said that I wish I didn’t have to work a full time job so I can spend more time with Nikolas. But if I look at this morning a different way, I can see that God was giving me time to spend with my son. It might not have been how I planned to spend my morning, but it was our special time in the quietness of the morning hours.

      To this day, the “tree” of my life is full of answered prayer for my son. God truly did give me the desires of my heart when Nikolas became a part of our family.  He has brought me such joy and life and I cherish each moment God gives me with him. I think I need to keep this thought in mind…especially now… he’s headed into his teen years and sometimes I really do think aliens have invaded his body and taken my sweet boy away… ha ha ha!

      Seriously though, I know God is faithful and my hope is in HIM not the circumstances of navigating the “teen  years” I see right in front of me.

      Hope’s Anthem by Bethel Church is a GREAT reminder to me that when my hope is in God alone…I  cannot be shaken or moved.

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    • Learning obedience through the “tuff stuff” of life

      Posted at 7:00 am by sneuhofer, on April 27, 2018

      Hebrews 5:7 – 8 (HCSB)  During His earthly life, He offered prayers and appeals with loud cries and tears to the One who was able to save Him from death, and He was heard because of His reverence. Though He was God’s Son, He learned obedience through what He suffered.

      Have you ever been in crisis and called out to the Lord, only to feel He didn’t hear you? You make your plea “Lord why is this happening to me? Why is my marriage failing? Why is my child raging? Why am I slowly dying of this incurable disease? Why did I lose my job?”  I know I have made these types of cries to the Lord and have felt at times that He’s just wasn’t listening. At times like these, I have often wondered why the God of the universe wouldn’t answer my prayer in that moment…but what if He did answer?

      When Jesus walked this earth, he also faced similar circumstances. He stepped out of his perfect heaven, emptied himself (Philippians 2:7) and took on the form of a human. Why? To show us how to live, treat others, and most importantly be obedient to the will of God even if it’s not the path he would have chosen for himself. In Matthew 26:39 we see Jesus crying out to his Father “My Father! If it is possible, let this cup pass from Me. Yet not as I will [emphasis mine], but as You will.”

      Jesus showed us how to be completely obedient even when he was staring death in the face. He could have called 10,000 angels to spare him the pain and anguish… but he didn’t. Obedience to the Father was more important to him than his comfort. He knew God had a plan for his life and he had to walk in that plan. God knew what was on the other side of the cross.

      God knows what’s on the other side of our crisis as well. He knows the plans He has for us. Just look at what He promises in Jeremiah 29:11 – 14 (MSG):

      I know what I’m doing. I have it all planned out—plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for. “When you call on me, when you come and pray to me, I’ll listen. “When you come looking for me, you’ll find me. Yes, when you get serious about finding me and want it more than anything else, I’ll make sure you won’t be disappointed.” God’s Decree.

      He hears our prayers and cares about the intimate details of our lives. Putting our trust and hope in the things of this world will leave us high and dry every time… but when we place our trust in God, we know that through every crisis we are learning to be more obedient to God and the plans He has for our lives.

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