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    • Confessions of an acceptance addict!

      Posted at 5:30 am by sneuhofer, on March 2, 2021
      James 1: 5 – 6 (NLT) “If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will give it to you. He will not rebuke you for asking. But when you ask him, be sure that your faith is in God alone (emphasis mine).”
      So, you find yourself in the middle of a “situation” and you don’t know the answer. You need advice. Who do you turn to? For me, I used to REALLY care what people thought I should do. Before even asking God for direction or guidance, I would go to friends and ask their opinion. I am not saying there is anything wrong with asking friends for their advice. The friends I seek advice from are incredible men and women of God and I believe with all my heart they give advice that is sound and biblical. However, when all is said and done and I have a decision to make I have to remember that true wisdom comes from God and I should be seeking His answer first.
      When you have a decision to make or are facing a difficult decision, go to God in prayer and trust Him to work in the details. Instead of talking to a trusted friend first, seek God’s advice. Ask Him for wisdom to make the right decision or how to handle this tough situation you may be facing. Trusted friends will provide confirmation of God’s guidance and direction…trust me!
      Another important thing to remember is that you have to trust God to provide the answer on His timetable. I know it’s tough to wait…but you have to be careful not to take your “situation” back and try to “handle” things yourself. James tells us in verse 6 (chapter 1) that we have to ask in faith and not doubt. Asking in faith means to come before God and ask with confidence that God will align our desires with His purposes. We have to believe that God will hear us and answer us.
      Now sometimes, the answer may come quickly and other times, the waiting will seem like forever. It’s what you do during the wait that’s important… no matter how much you want to doubt His providence and sovereignty…, don’t.  Remember God’s timing is not our timing,  but it is perfect. Only He can see the entire picture of our lives. Have you ever thought that the process may be taking longer because  God is working on someone else in our situation? I have to admit that this is a tough one for me. Because why should I have to wait for someone else…. frustrating I know. But there is beauty in the “wait.”
      When you ask God for something are you convinced that his way is best and are you willing to accept the answer He gives? God is trustworthy. Rely on Him to show you what is best for you – NO MATTER THE OUTCOME.
      Related reading: Psalm 63:8; Proverbs 3: 5- 6; 1 Corinthians 13: 6 – 7

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    • Who’s blueprints are you following?

      Posted at 11:30 am by sneuhofer, on February 26, 2021

      Psalm 127: 1 (HCSB) Unless the Lord builds a house, its builders labor in vein; unless the Lord watches over a city the watchman stays alert in vein.

      I can do absolutely nothing apart from God. As hard as I try to do things in my own strength, it’s fruitless if the Lord has not blessed it. When I look at Psalm 127:1, I’m reminded of all the times I’ve tried to run ahead of God, or felt like I knew what was better for me than He did.

      This verse clearly tells me that if the Lord is included in the process, my efforts will not be in vein.

      So that means, every time I decided to get ahead of God, my efforts weren’t successful…because the Lord wasn’t the one leading the charge. I was trying to force an outcome or make something on my own, haphazardly stepping in places God never designed for my feet to go.

      No more.

      I’m laying down “my tools” and trusting God to build the house. What about you? Have you been trying to do something in your own strength? Are you tired? Do you feel like you’re beating your head against a wall? It’s probably time to engage God and determine if what you’re working so hard to accomplish is part of His plan for you.

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    • Do things seem hopeless?

      Posted at 4:00 am by sneuhofer, on February 22, 2021

      When circumstances appear hopeless, God keeps his promises.

      Abram (Abraham) was 75 years old when God told him to “leave his country, your relatives, and your father’s family, and go to the land I will show you (Gen 12: 1).” God continued to tell Abraham that He would make him a great nation from his family. Abram obeyed God and left the comforts of his homeland for an unknown destination.

      I wonder if the words “I will make a great nation from your family” were mulled around in the back of his head as he headed out. You see at the time, Abraham had no biological children as his wife Sarai (Sarah) was barren. Yet…Abram stepped out in faith and didn’t question God.

      Fast forward a few years. I wonder if Abraham assumes God will fulfill His promise of making a great nation from his family through his slave Eliezer because he and Sarah are still childless. This story is told in Genesis 15: 1-6 where the Lord appears to Abraham in a vision:

      “Abram, don’t be afraid. I will defend you, and I will give you a great reward.” But Abram said, “Lord God, what can you give me? I have no son, so my slave Eliezer from Damascus will get everything I own after I die.” Abram said, “Look, you have given me no son, so a slave born in my house will inherit everything I have.” Then the Lord spoke his word to Abram: “He will not be the one to inherit what you have. You will have a son of your own who will inherit what you have.” Then God led Abram outside and said, “Look at the sky. There are so many stars you cannot count them. Your descendants also will be too many to count.” Abram believed the Lord. And the Lord accepted Abram’s faith, and that faith made him right with God. [emphasis mine]”

      God promises Abraham descendants too many to count but the circumstances haven’t changed a bit…Abraham and Sarah are still advanced in years and childless. Perhaps a few more years pass, I don’t know the Bible doesn’t tell us…but Sarah decides to take matters into her own hands and gives her slave girl, Hagar, to Abraham (Genesis 16:1-3). Although this was customary in their day it still showed a lack of faith in God to do what He promised He would do.

      Have you ever taken matters into your own hands and gotten ahead of God? Perhaps you take a look at the circumstances surrounding you and think “maybe I should step in and do…something.”

      I sure have and boy… did I make a mess of things. By taking things into my own hands and “taking care of business” in my own strength and timing, it showed God that I had a complete lack of faith and willingness to allow Him to work in His.

      Go ahead… you can say it…  it’s nothing I haven’t said to myself at least 100 times. OUCH! Right?

      What I have to remember is God always keeps his promises…it may take a lot longer than I would like, but He is faithful….and His timing is always right on time.

      Lamentations 3:21 – 26 (GW) “The reason I can still find hope is that I keep this one thing in mind: the Lord’s mercy. We were not completely wiped out. His compassion is never limited. It is new every morning. His faithfulness is great. My soul can say, ‘The Lord is my lot in life. That is why I find hope in him.’ The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to anyone who seeks help from him. “It is good to continue to hope and wait silently for the Lord to save us.”

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