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    • A Crack and a Thwack

      Posted at 7:00 am by sneuhofer, on March 30, 2018

      One day as I was making a salad for my family to enjoy for lunch I accidentally “sliced” off the tip of my index finger. I knew I’d cut it pretty deep because I immediately felt throbbing pain traveling through my finger. Then I saw blood – EVERYWHERE. I dropped everything, ran to the sink, turned on the water, and quickly poked my fingertip into the running flow. This I can tell you was not the right thing to do. The sudden sting of the water hitting the open wound was worse than the pain of the cut itself. As the minutes past the throbbing in my figure increased in intensity, I did everything I knew to stop the bleeding….nothing helped. The cut, although very small, produced incredible discomfort. Weeks later I could still feel the pain whenever the area near the cut was touched.

      The cut on my finger reminded me of what happened that Good Friday all those years ago. I can’t begin to imagine the excruciating pain (both emotionally and physically) Jesus must have felt that day. The pain would all start when two of his disciples, who had spent 3 years of their lives following him, unleashed the first emotional blow. Judas would betray him for personal gain (Matthew 26:14 – 16). Then Peter, who just hours earlier boldly professed he would die for Jesus, denied him…not just once but 3 times (Matthew 26:69-75).

      Can I just tell you if my closest friends did this to me, I would have been a puddle of muck….but not Jesus. He saw the bigger picture and carried on. His Father’s plan had to be accomplished.

      That night Jesus faced an unfair trial at the hands of the Jewish and Roman authorities. Emotional pain would turn to physical pain soon after Pilate ordered Jesus to be flogged.

      Crack!

      The prongs at the end of the whip sank deep into his beard ripping out bits and pieces as it was quickly drawn back for another pulverizing blow. Flesh-covered arms and legs, that crossed racial, social, and religious boundaries, were torn to shreds with each contemptuous lash. Forty times the whip’s fury left stripe after stripe across Jesus’s back.

      I sometimes wonder if Jesus knew that each stripe-producing whack he endured would, one day, provide hope and healing for followers to come (Isaiah 53:5 and 1 Peter 2:24).

      The suffering doesn’t stop with flogging. The face that looked down over the dark expanse of the universe and said “Let there be light” was slapped bloody by mocking guards. A crown of thorns pressed firmly through his hair and into the scalp, produced blood droplets that rolled down the face and over the lips of the one who spoke words of life and peace.

      He then picked up the cross he would soon be nailed to and began the journey to Calvary’s hill. Can you even begin to imagine what he was feeling? He had just been thrashed 40 times with a spike-tipped whip which produced gaping wounds of raw flesh. Yet with each step, Jesus fulfilled a purpose.

      Horizontal he lay, stretching out one arm and then the next…can you feel the tip of the spike?

      Thwack!

      Mallet head meets spike top and thrusts its tip through one wrist.

      Thwack!

      Then the other. A soldier holds one foot down and moves the other into place over the first.

      Thwack!

      The final spike is set.

      Now, nailed to a cross, the beam is shoved upward and comes to its vertical resting place. There, the creator of heaven and earth in human form hangs suspended between his two creations. Outstretched arms that once held the world are now the greatest symbol of love for the creation he breathed life into and formed in his own image. If that wasn’t enough…the spotless and clean became the filthiest of filth…sin.

      And why? Why did Jesus do this?

      Because he understood the price of sin and wanted to cancel the debt for all people. The price of sin? Death. (Romans 6:23) Eternal separation from a holy God.

      Why would Jesus want to pay for our sin? The answer is simple. He loves us and wants us to be with him for eternity. Jesus died a horrendous death so through him (our sin offering) we can be spared sin’s death grip.

      John 3:16 – 18 (MSG) “This is how much God loved the world: He gave his Son, his one and only Son. And this is why: so that no one need be destroyed; by believing in him, anyone can have a whole and lasting life. God didn’t go to all the trouble of sending his Son merely to point an accusing finger, telling the world how bad it was. He came to help, to put the world right again. Anyone who trusts in him is acquitted; anyone who refuses to trust him has long since been under the death sentence without knowing it. And why? Because of that person’s failure to believe in the one-of-a-kind Son of God when introduced to him.

      Romans 5:6 – 8 (MSG) “Christ arrives right on time to make this happen. He didn’t, and doesn’t, wait for us to get ready. He presented himself for this sacrificial death when we were far too weak and rebellious to do anything to get ourselves ready. And even if we hadn’t been so weak, we wouldn’t have known what to do anyway. We can understand someone dying for a person worth dying for, and we can understand how someone good and noble could inspire us to selfless sacrifice. But God put his love on the line for us by offering his Son in sacrificial death while we were of no use whatever to him.”

      Do you know Jesus? Have you accepted Him as your savior? He died so that you could be forgiven and have eternal life. He doesn’t care where you’ve been or what you’ve done…all He cares about is where you are headed from this point forward.

      Ask him into your heart today… will you pray with me?

      Jesus, I know I am a sinner and have fallen so, so short. I believe that you died on the cross so that my sins could be forgiven. Please come into my heart today and forgive me so that I can spend eternity with you. Jesus, please place people in my life who will encourage me as I walk with you. Amen

      If you have just prayed this prayer… welcome to the kingdom of God!!! The Bible says you are now a new creation in Christ…the old has gone and the new has come.  It’s as if you’ve never sinned (2 Corinthians 5:17).So what do you do now?
      • Don’t keep this good news to yourself! Tell a fellow Christian!
      • Get into God’s word and begin to grow in your faith.

      To help you get into God’s word, check out a few related posts:

      • Trying vs. Training
      • Have you gotten lazy?
      • Hide His word away

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    • The Boundary Breaker

      Posted at 7:00 am by sneuhofer, on March 22, 2023
      In John chapter 4, we see Jesus crossing racial and social boundaries to talk to a Samaritan woman. If you’ve been reading my posts, today I am trying something just a little different. If you have a Bible handy turn with me to John 4, if not it’s ok….read on I will do my best to explain the story.
      Try to picture this scene in your mind. Jesus and his disciples were headed back to Galilee from Judea. The shortest route home was through Samaria. During this time period, Jews and Samaritans didn’t speak, in fact the Jews would rather go out of their way than take a short cut through the city of Samaria. But not Jesus, he had no reason to live by what the culture around him dictated.
      When Jesus and his disciples approached a well, Jesus sat down to rest while his disciples went into town to buy food. As he waited, a Samaritan woman came to the well to draw water. Each time I read this passage, I always wonder what’s going through this woman’s mind as she approaches the well. Scripture tells us that she knew Jesus was a Jewish man (see verse 9).  So I put myself at the scene. If I approach a stranger, I tend to have a quick conversation with myself. Perhaps that day I would have said something like this:
      “I wonder who that guy is? He looks tired and thirsty. Maybe I should just acknowledge his presence with a nod.”
      The Bible doesn’t tell us what was going through her mind. It really doesn’t matter. What DOES matter is that Jesus crossed the barrier first.

      His request was a simple one. “Please give me some water.”

      Again, I have to go back to the woman. She was a Samaritan, she wasn’t supposed to be talking to, much less hanging out with, a Jew. Here she was face to face with Jesus. The Bible says she was surprised that Jesus even said anything to her. I wonder how she felt at that very moment.
      Her response was accurate for the culture in which she lived “I am a Samaritan, you are a Jew. How can you ask me for a drink?”
      Jesus said, “If you knew the gift of God and who it is that asks you for a drink, you would have asked him and he would have given you living water.”
      Living water? Yes, that’s the gift! Living water…eternal life.
      He had her captivated. “Where? Where can I get this living water?” she desperately longed for water that would last.
      “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, but WHOEVER drinks this water I give will never be thirsty. The water I give will become a spring of water gushing up inside the person, giving eternal life.”
      Can you just imagine the conversation the woman is having with herself? “Did you hear that? He said WHOEVER!”
      Have you ever thought about “who” whoever encompasses? The loveable, the unlovable, the hurting, the poor, the downcast, the murderer, the liar, the adulterer, the angry, the bitter, the unfaithful.
      This woman must have decided in her mind “I’m a whoever! A spring of water will gush up inside of me. I can only imagine how refreshing that will be. I want this water.  I have to ask him how I get it!”  The woman responds “Sir, please give me this water.”
      Jesus looks at her “Go get your husband and come back here.”
      The woman could have said anything here.  She could have made an excuse but she didn’t and with honesty, she told Jesus “I don’t have a husband.”
      Looking at her with love-filled eyes Jesus said “You’re right. You’ve had five husbands and the one you live with now is not your husband.”
      I don’t know about you, but my jaw would have hit the ground if I were that woman. There was something different about this man at the well and she knew it. “I can see you’re a prophet.”
      Jesus’ response was perhaps another jaw-dropping moment for the woman “I am the Messiah.”
      The Bible doesn’t tell us if there were words exchanged after this. What the Bible does say is that the woman left everything to go back to her town and tell the people of her encounter with Jesus. The woman wasn’t concerned about the water at the well. She probably forgot all about it. She just had an encounter with the Messiah! A spring of water now gushing from inside her and she has to tell everyone she knows.
      “Everyone listen! You have to come and see the Messiah. He told me everything I had ever done. He wasn’t harsh at all.  He didn’t condemn me. His words were kind and caring and he gave me eternal life!”
      Have you ever thought about how this woman must have felt? She knew the mistakes she had made in her past but that didn’t seem to matter anymore.  After her personal encounter with Jesus, she had a spring of new life gushing from within and it changed her forever.
      Psalm 32: 1 – 2, Isaiah 55: 6 – 7, Matthew 11:28 – 30, Colossians 1: 13 – 14

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    • Peace! Be Still!

      Posted at 9:36 am by sneuhofer, on October 15, 2021

      Mark 4:39 (ESV) And he awoke and rebuked the wind and said to the sea, “Peace! Be still!” And the wind ceased, and there was a great calm.

      This morning has been a doozy of a morning already. It’s mornings like these when I don’t even pause to spend a moment with the Father that chaos will inevitably ensue. This morning though, I took a breath and heard a gentle whisper in the middle of my raging sea.


      “Take a moment. Take a breath. I am with you.”

      At that moment I was reminded of Mark 4:35 – 41. It’s the story where Jesus and his disciples get in a boat and face a terrible storm. In this story, Jesus was asleep on a cushion while the boat was filling with water and the disciples were afraid. What we sometimes miss in this story is the promise found at the very beginning…in verse 35. Jesus says “let us go to the other side.”


      Jesus has already promised to get them to the other side! Yes, they are going to go through some tough stuff while they are getting there…but they will get there because Jesus has already said they were going to go.


      I have to believe that the same Jesus who was with the disciples in the boat that day, is with me today. I may forget that He is there sometimes and try to strike out on my own and handle things my own way…but it is so much better when I let Him take control of things. There may be a raging sea…but I know that He will ultimately get me to the other side.

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    • Are you “Killing” the People You Love?

      Posted at 8:45 am by sneuhofer, on October 10, 2021

      Today’s post is a post I wrote back in 2017, but I wanted to reshare because the message is so important today. Words Matter – The words we say have meaning and once they are out – there is no way to put them back in or take them back. We are left to deal with them. So, in this post I reflect on if my words are helpful or hurtful.

      James 3:5-6 (TPT) “And so the tongue is a small part of the body yet it carries great power! Just think of how a small flame can set a huge forest ablaze. 6 And the tongue is a fire! It can be compared to the sum total of wickedness and is the most dangerous part of our human body. It corrupts the entire body and is a hellish flame! It releases a fire that can burn throughout the course of human existence.

      Words hurt.

      That is the truth. It doesn’t matter if I said them to someone, or someone said them to me.

      Can you relate? Someone chooses to use reckless words in the heat of an argument and you instantly feel the crushing blow in every fiber of your being. You feel so insignificant, so small, so cut down by the words someone else has spoken.

      As I read the words of James 3:5-6, I am reminded of what my  very own tongue can actually do; even though it’s a small part of my body. My tongue has the ability to make a huge impact on everyone around me…good or bad. So, I have to ask myself a question, how am I using my words?

      Here’s a question for you, have you ever said something to someone and once the words were out, you wish you could take them all back? I sure have. I have carelessly used my words to inflict pain. I know for a fact that’s not the person God wants me to be – or I even want to be. God wants me (and you) to use the words that come out of my mouth to build people up and ultimately build a bridge to Him.

      But, in the heat of an argument it’s easy to spew angry and hurtful words at someone.  Just because I’m angry doesn’t make the words less damaging. God’s word says “People speak the things that are in their hearts.” (Luke 6:45 NCV)

      YIKES!

      When I let my words carelessly “run rampant” it’s a display of those things that are in my heart.

      DOUBLE YIKES!

      What words have you said lately that don’t reflect the love of Jesus in your heart? Have your words been full of anger, jealousy, bitterness, rudeness, and gossip or have they encouraged those around you and brought glory to God?

      I know I have set people “on fire” with the words that have hastily come out of my mouth…and that makes me sad. The last thing I want to do is bring a paralyzing blow with my words. I want my words to be full of love and life. When people hear me speak, I want them to hear the goodness and kindness of Jesus.

      But how? I am hiding the God’s word in my heart (memorizing scripture) and praying that I can change the contents of my heart.  I know that If I work toward replacing my thoughtless words with God’s word, I am disciplining myself to speak words of grace, truth and life.

      Father, help me to hide your word in my heart so that when I speak, the words that flow will be full of love and grace. Forgive me for any careless word I have spoken to others. Help me to replace “words of death” with “words of life.” Amen

      Additional scripture:

      Proverbs 12:18 (NIV) The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.

      Proverbs 15:4 (NIV) The soothing tongue is a tree of life, but a perverse tongue crushes the spirit.

      Proverbs 18:21 (MSG) Words kill, words give life; they’re either poison or fruit—you choose.

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