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    • Accountability…no one likes it but everyone needs it

      Posted at 7:55 am by sneuhofer, on August 7, 2018

      Every year our pastor encourages the entire congregation to join him in reading through the Bible in a year. On day 5, I was in Genesis reading about Noah, his obedience, and how God blessed him and his family because of it. One thing that really jumped out at me in the reading that day was Genesis 9:5.

      “And for your lifeblood I will surely demand an accounting. I will demand an accounting from every animal. And from each human being, too, I will demand an accounting for the life of another human being.” [emphasis mine]

      This verse clearly tells us that God will hold the human race accountable. Not just for murder, as referenced in this verse, but for everything we do – everyaction, thought, deed, and word. How do I know this? In the book of Romans, Paul writes:

      You, then, why do you judge your brother or sister? Or why do you treat them with contempt? For we will all stand before God’s judgment seat. It is written: “‘As surely as I live,’ says the Lord, ‘every knee will bow before me; every tongue will acknowledge God.’” So then, each of us will give an account of ourselves to God. [emphasis mine] Romans 14:10-12 (NIV)

      It is important that we know our heart is right toward God. Is there anything you are hiding from God? Any motive? Any hidden sin? Any unforgiveness? Reveal it all to Him. He knows everything about you anyway. According to Hebrews 4:13, there is nothing we can hide from him.

      Nothing in all the world can be hidden from God. Everything is clear and lies open before him, and to him we must explain the way we have lived. [emphasis mine] Hebrews 4:13 (NCV)

      I challenge you today to turn the search light on yourself. If there is anything you are holding back, bring it out of the shadows and into His glorious light. He will help you deal with whatever it is if you take the first step in exposing it.

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    • Let’s get real…

      Posted at 7:00 am by sneuhofer, on February 5, 2018

      Colossians 3 1-2 (MSG) So if you’re serious about living this new resurrection life with Christ, act like it. Pursue the things over which Christ presides. Don’t shuffle along, eyes to the ground, absorbed with the things right in front of you. Look up, and be alert to what is going on around Christ—that’s where the action is. See things from his perspective. [emphasis mine]

      Have you accepted Christ as your Savior but found yourself falling back into some of your old patterns? Perhaps you are faithful in going to church every Sunday, but not so faithful when it comes to acting like you even know Jesus the rest of the week. Living the Christian life is not easy, that’s why God has blessed us with “spiritual brothers and sisters” to help us along in our journey. Being in community (or fellowship or hanging out) with other believers is essential to growth as Christians.

      I attend a church where we gather on Sunday mornings for a regular church service, then during the week, smaller groups gather in members’ homes. These groups are typically 8 – 10 (sometimes more) adults who meet for a little fellowship and Bible study. Honestly, it’s in the smaller group setting that I’ve been personally challenged to work on the areas of my life that are not of Christ. The relationships I’ve found through these groups are the most genuine friendships I’ve ever had in my life. I can tell these people anything without fear of it being “front page news” the next day. I can be honest and real and even downright raw in front of them. It’s in those real moments that my life has changed, and my faith in Christ has grown.

      As I read through Colossians, I couldn’t help but think about the impact the smaller group setting has made on my life and in the lives of countless others. I gave my life to Christ one Sunday morning at a very young age. I didn’t exactly know what that meant at the time and fell away from Christ in my mid-teens. When I came back to Christ as an adult, I knew I couldn’t walk out my faith on my own. Without Christian friends surrounding me and holding me accountable, Satan was able to easily take advantage and sway my focus off Christ and back into the very lifestyle that was dragging me deeper and deeper into a pit of darkness.

      This “see-saw” type life between the world and those things of Christ went on for months until finally one day I had enough. I craved Christian community. I believe God planted that needs inside me because He knew I needed to be around a body of believers who had walked down the same road I walked and could relate to my same struggles. I decided to take the step and connect with a small group and the rest is pretty much history. From the very first group night… I got serious about living my new resurrected life.

      What about you? Do you have a group of people in your life that will hold you accountable and pray with you?

      I challenge you today to find Christian brothers and sisters that you can walk your Christian life with. There is nothing better that “doing this life” with people who love me and challenge me to be all that I can be through Christ.

       Related scriptures: Proverbs 18:24,  Proverbs 17:17 , Ruth 1: 16

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    • The truth can be painful

      Posted at 8:45 am by sneuhofer, on August 26, 2017
      Proverbs 27:6 (GW) Wounds made by a friend are intended to help, but an enemy’s kisses are too much to bear.
      Does anyone like really being held accountable?  The more I think about this question and the more I listen to the “chatter” around me, the more I would have to say “No, I really don’t think anyone like to be held accountable.”  Bottom line… accountability is hard. But, to talk about it, I want to make sure we have a good definition first.
      ACCOUNTABIL’ITY, n.
      The state of being liable to answer for one’s conduct; liability to give account, and to receive reward or punishment for actions.
      To be honest, I’m not overly-enthusiastic when someone points out an area of weakness in my life. Who really is? So, when it comes time for someone to tell me a “hard” truth, I have to consider the source of the information. Is it someone I truly trust to have best interest at heart, or is it someone just pointing an accusing finger? I have to admit it’s an easier pill for me to swallow when I trust the person bringing me the unpleasant advice.
      A biblical example of this type of accountability can be found in 2 Samuel chapters 11 and 12.  It’s about a year after David committed adultery with Bathsheba which produced a pregnancy. In chapter 11, David plots to cover up this adulterous affair by sending Uriah (Bathsheba’s husband) to the front lines of battle knowing he’d be killed.  As the chain of events unfold, every decision David made plunged him deeper and deeper into a pit sin and he grew more callous with every action.
      God sends Nathan, David best friend, to confront him and help him see his own wrongdoing and then comfort him with the reality of God’s forgiveness. During this conversation, Nathan also had to remind David that the consequences his sin would bring the death of his son with Bathsheba. This couldn’t have been an easy conversation for David to have with anyone…but it had to have been easier coming from someone David trusted.
      The truth can be painful but when it delivered by a trusted friend you can be assured it’s for your good…and growth.

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