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    • Are you watching out for life’s hot pots?

      Posted at 8:25 am by sneuhofer, on August 28, 2017
      Proverbs 12:1 (NCV) “Anyone who loves learning accepts correction, but a person who hates being corrected is stupid.”
      Ok, I must admit when I read this verse in Proverbs 12 I felt a little twinge of pain because after all, who likes being told they’re doing something wrong? I know I sure don’t. However, when it comes down to living according to God’s word, it IS up to me to accept the correction that living a fully devoted life requires….whether I like it or not.
      The writer of Hebrews says “God disciplines those he loves” (Hebrews 12:5-6). He (God) disciplines us in the same way we discipline our children. As a parent, I discipline my child because I can see the consequences of his actions if he continues down a current path of motion. The same is true of our Heavenly Father.
      God can see our lives from beginning to end. Just like the watchful eye of a caring parent, He sees when we are about to “touch a boiling pot on the stove” of our life and encourages us (through His word, previous life experiences, our friends and family, etc.) to “move” because He loves us and doesn’t want to see us get burned. His desire is to give us the abundant life He has planned for us,
      Sometimes I think I’m just too caught up in my own agenda to see His plan clearly. I know discipline isn’t fun but when heeded it will produce a harvest of righteousness (Hebrews 12:10 – 11).
      So, do you have any “hot-pots” in your life that are within reach?  Here are a few examples to help get you started… disobedience or rebellion to something God has asked you to do, gossip, little white lies, inappropriate relationships, bitterness, anger?

      Why are there “hot-pots” in our lives that we keep touching over and over again? We know the pot is hot, yet we fail to learn from the scorched fingertip it produces. Some burns from hot-pots have burned deep and the pain is unbearable. So why won’t we just accept God’s loving discipline. It is only when we accept God’s correction that we can live the abundant life He has promised for us.

      Related reading: Deut. 8:2-5; Rev. 3: 19 – 20; 2 Cor. 12: 7-10; 1 Cor 10:13

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    • What do you have without love?

      Posted at 8:45 am by sneuhofer, on August 27, 2017
      1 Corinthians 13: 4 – 8 (MSG) I’m bankrupt without love. Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have. Love doesn’t strut, Doesn’t have a swelled head, Doesn’t force itself on others, Isn’t always “me first,” Doesn’t fly off the handle, Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others, Doesn’t revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with anything, Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never looks back, But keeps going to the end. Love never dies.
      The definition of the word “love” according to Nelson’s Compact Bible Dictionary is
      The highest esteem God has for His human children and the high regard which they, in turn, should have for Him and other people.

      With this definition freshly in mind, go back and read 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 with me again.

      “I am bankrupt without love.”
      1 John 4:8 tells us that God is Love. So if we go back to the passage 1 Corinthians 13: 4 and replace the word “love” with God it reads
      I am bankrupt without love“I am bankrupt without God.”
      Whoa… the meaning takes on an entirely different meaning doesn’t it?
      But don’t stop there. Take it one step further and make it personal, this time replace the word “I” with your first name:
      “Sheri is bankrupt without God.”

      Well, how true is that? I have or can do absolutely nothing without God.

      Let’s move to the next sentence and go deeper and make it personal. Read the passage through again and replace the word LOVE with your own name. It reads like this:  “Sheri never gives up.”
      WHOA! Stop there and let’s do a little self-assessment. I’m not sure about you, but there have been times that I’ve given up. Feeling utterly defeated, I have thrown my hands up in the air a time or two and said “Forget this! I can’t do this anymore.” But wait – didn’t we just say that God is love? Knowing this I can read it with confidence “God never gives up.”
      I can also read this verse another way by remembering the words of Philippians 4:13 (NIV) “I can do all things through Christ, because He gives me strength.” So now, with the words of this verse in mind let’s read the words one last time,
      “Sheri, through Christ, never gives up.”
      Ok, now that sounds better to me wouldn’t you agree?
      May I encourage you today to make the words of 1 Corinthians 13 personal. Read through the passage and replace the word love with your name.  You may find yourself looking at the circumstances you face in a completely different light.

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    • The truth can be painful

      Posted at 8:45 am by sneuhofer, on August 26, 2017
      Proverbs 27:6 (GW) Wounds made by a friend are intended to help, but an enemy’s kisses are too much to bear.
      Does anyone like really being held accountable?  The more I think about this question and the more I listen to the “chatter” around me, the more I would have to say “No, I really don’t think anyone like to be held accountable.”  Bottom line… accountability is hard. But, to talk about it, I want to make sure we have a good definition first.
      ACCOUNTABIL’ITY, n.
      The state of being liable to answer for one’s conduct; liability to give account, and to receive reward or punishment for actions.
      To be honest, I’m not overly-enthusiastic when someone points out an area of weakness in my life. Who really is? So, when it comes time for someone to tell me a “hard” truth, I have to consider the source of the information. Is it someone I truly trust to have best interest at heart, or is it someone just pointing an accusing finger? I have to admit it’s an easier pill for me to swallow when I trust the person bringing me the unpleasant advice.
      A biblical example of this type of accountability can be found in 2 Samuel chapters 11 and 12.  It’s about a year after David committed adultery with Bathsheba which produced a pregnancy. In chapter 11, David plots to cover up this adulterous affair by sending Uriah (Bathsheba’s husband) to the front lines of battle knowing he’d be killed.  As the chain of events unfold, every decision David made plunged him deeper and deeper into a pit sin and he grew more callous with every action.
      God sends Nathan, David best friend, to confront him and help him see his own wrongdoing and then comfort him with the reality of God’s forgiveness. During this conversation, Nathan also had to remind David that the consequences his sin would bring the death of his son with Bathsheba. This couldn’t have been an easy conversation for David to have with anyone…but it had to have been easier coming from someone David trusted.
      The truth can be painful but when it delivered by a trusted friend you can be assured it’s for your good…and growth.

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