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    • It’s “what’s best for me”

      Posted at 8:45 am by sneuhofer, on September 22, 2017

      Proverbs 30:5 “Every promise of God proves true; he protects everyone who runs to him for help.”

      Have you ever heard someone say “I have to do what’s best for me?” Maybe you’ve even said it yourself a time or too…I know I have. The truth is, if what’s “best for me” goes against or doesn’t align with what God’s word says we fall into sin’s trap.

      The world would have us believe that times have changed and the word of God is simply a “guideline” for how to live a moral and just life. Furthermore, we are inundated with ideas that we should also “believe” that there is “no way” in today’s society we could even follow such “out of date” practices. I personally, would BEG to differ. I think about this and it breaks my heart.

      The word of God is as true today as it was over 2,000 thousands of years ago. The Bible has stood the test of time and is our guiding light in the uncharted waters of this journey we call life. Through it, God shows us His unconditional love, how to live and how to love. He has also given us armor we can put on every day to stand up and fight against Satan’s schemes (Ephesians 6:10 – 18). He even promises peace to people who follow him (Psalms 85:5 and Isaiah 26:3-4).

      Finally, did you catch the second part of Proverbs 30:5? “He protects everyone who runs to him for help.” According to Noah Webster’s (1828) dictionary the word “protect” means:

      To cover or shield from danger or injury; to defend; to guard.

      Imagine that for just a moment. When we “run” and seek the truth from God’s word instead of this world, God will “protect” or “shield” us from the dangers of it (this world). I for one would rather be shielded by God than led astray by the lies.

      So “what’s best for me” is to listen and obey God’s word no matter what this “world” may think of me.

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    • My Double Life

      Posted at 8:45 am by sneuhofer, on September 19, 2017

      Proverbs 8:13 “The reverent fear and worshipful awe of the Lord [includes] the hatred of evil; pride, arrogance, the evil way, and perverted and twisted speech I hate.”

      I was raised in a Christian home and gave my life to Christ at the age of 11. By the time I was 16 the world enticed to me to follows its ways and I fell for it….all of it. I lived through my late teens, 20’s, and early 30’s reckless and with very little regard for God or his word. Even still, God never let me go. He had something much better than the life I was living in the world. I just had to realize the truth and turn away from it completely. The next time I bumped into Jesus, I was 33. I spent a VERY LONG time living in the world.

      With this fresh commitment to Jesus, my life would radically change in the way I talked, thought, and lived. This change, however, wouldn’t happen overnight. When I said “YES” to Christ one Sunday morning in March of 2001, it was a half-hearted ‘yes’ at best. I wanted my life to change so badly but I wasn’t willing to “give up” my world to do it. I lived “on the fence” for about a year-and-a-half. During this time I’d go through the motions of church and my small group bible study, and still hang out with my “worldly friends.” I still talked, thought and lived my life as one reckless mess.

      There I stood, at the crossroads of my life unwilling to make a move.

      God changed my perspective about living in “both worlds” one night when I had too much to drink and could barely stand. I had convinced myself and others I’d be fine to drive home so I got in my car and turned the key. As I did, something inside of me turned too. My eyes flooded with tears and moments later, sobs.

      “Oh God, I am so sorry. What have I done? I am still making the same mess of my life. I want what you want for me but I can’t seem to get there. Help me Jesus! Save me from me.”

      I grabbed my phone and began scrolling through my contacts list until I landed on the number of my small group leader. For the first time since I joined the small bible study group I admitted I was living a “double life”…living a lie. I had been wearing a mask the entire time. It was now time for me to get off the fence and really make a move forward onto God’s path. That night God’s grace poured over me like a soft cleansing rain and I felt his arms of love and not condemnation.

      The next morning I received a call from one of the pastors at the church – again not condemning me for what I had done but encouraging me to begin the process of saying “NO” to the world and everything in it. I finally took that first step of commitment to following Jesus. I had to give up my worldly friends, for a while, until I could stand on my own and not fall to the temptations that had plagued my life for years.

      Reading over Proverbs 8 this morning, my eyes landed on verse 13 and it brought my story to mind. This verse clearly says that love for God and love for sin cannot coexist. I saw this verse played out in my life. I couldn’t have my worldly friends, ways, and mind-set and commit wholeheartedly to Christ. So I chose the exciting journey of following Christ! I still talk to and see my old friends – I still love them. I don’t judge them for what they do or the way they live their life. I simply pray for them to come to the grace and knowledge that I found in Christ. But until they do…all I can do is be the woman God created me to be and I like it like that.

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    • Has your marriage reached…hopeless?

      Posted at 8:45 am by sneuhofer, on September 18, 2017

      1 Corinthians 7:17 (MSG) “And don’t be wishing you were someplace else or with someone else. Where you are right now is God’s place for you. Live and obey and love and believe right there. God, not your marital status, defines your life. Don’t think I’m being harder on you than on the others. I give this same counsel in all the churches.”

      Have you ever felt like your marriage has reached the point of hopeless? The relationship has gotten so bad that it’s barely recognizable. You say things like “Who is the man (or woman) I’m married to?” and “This is NOT what I signed up for all those years ago.” One day you may even think things have gotten so off track that everything in you wants to pull the big “D” card and just walk away. Can you relate?

      Well, now it’s time to be honest about a few things. As a follower of Jesus Christ, the Bible becomes the standard by which we live our life.  True? So naturally when things go crazy, especially in a spiritually mismatched marriage, we should turn to the Bible for guidance and direction. In 1 Corinthians 7:12 – 13 (MSG) Paul says “For the rest of you who are in mixed marriages—Christian married to non-Christian—we have no explicit command from the Master. So this is what you must do. If you are a man with a wife who is not a believer but who still wants to live with you, hold on to her. If you are a woman with a husband who is not a believer but he wants to live with you, hold on to him. The unbelieving husband shares to an extent in the holiness of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is likewise touched by the holiness of her husband.”

      Personally I must admit this, and other verses like it, are hard for me to hear and even harder to abide by. But you know as hard as they are to hear, it was 1 Corinthians 7:17 that halted me dead in my tracks.

      “…Where you are right now is God’s place for you. God, not your marital status, defines your life.”

      Everything we experience in our life happens for a reason. God will use everything we have walked through in life  to teach us a lesson, to increase our faith, and get us to the next level of our walk with Him. We just have to keep our eyes fixed on Him and not be deterred by circumstances that seem to close in from all sides. Who knows what God is trying to do through the very circumstances He has us in… we can’t see what He sees. We can only see what is directly in front of us.

      If you are reading these words and are currently in a marriage that is “barely recognizable”, may I encourage you (and your spouse) to seek counsel. You never know how God will use that time. Continue to listen for God’s voice. Stay in close relationship with Christ by daily scripture reading and praying with a trusted friend. Oh yeah…one other thing – PRAY LIKE A MANIAC for your situation, for guidance and direction, for peace, and for your spouse. God knows your heart and He knows what’s going on in your marriage. You will feel a much better if you lay it all down at His feet and let God take the weight of the burden off of your shoulders.

      Father – I pray for those who feel their marriages have reached the place of hopelessness. Please let them know that You’re with them and You see their pain. Also, please let them see that through You there is hope even when circumstances seem bleak. Help them to hold on to their marriage and realize that it’s only through You, their marriage can find restoration, life, and hope. Amen.

      Related scripture:
      Psalm 121; Isaiah 26:3 – 4; Nahum 1:7

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