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    • What’s your choice, bondage or freedom?

      Posted at 7:00 am by sneuhofer, on February 19, 2018

      Romans 6:20 – 23 (MSG) “As long as you did what you felt like doing, ignoring God, you didn’t have to bother with right thinking or right living, or right anything for that matter. But do you call that a free life? What did you get out of it? Nothing you’re proud of now. Where did it get you? A dead end. But now that you’ve found you don’t have to listen to sin tell you what to do, and have discovered the delight of listening to God telling you, what a surprise! A whole, healed, put-together life right now, with more and more of life on the way! Work hard for sin your whole life and your pension is death. But God’s gift is real life, eternal life, delivered by Jesus, our Master.”

      Did you know that the sin in our life holds us hostage in a guilt and shame-filled prison cell. It might not seem like you’re in a jail cell at the time…but this is how Satan plays his games. Sin is fun isn’t it? If it wasn’t, no one would do it…right??? Without even knowing it, sin binds us to the wall of desolation where there is no hope and we are destined to die. This is a tough pill to swallow for me because a “little” sin (over indulging in food or alcohol, gossip, looking at a hot guy for far too long, etc.)  is so much fun! Isn’t it? But the “little” sin brings just as much death at the sin we like to define as “big” sin – murder, rape, stealing, etc.

      Praise God there is hope outside of those sin induced prison walls. His name is Jesus Christ. When we accept Him as our Lord and Savior, our old way of life is gone (2 Corinthians 5:17)… nailed to the very cross where Jesus paid our bail. Jesus, the only sinless Son of God, served the time for our “crime.” No matter what we’ve done, we can be assured that our old life is gone and we’re set free from the bondage of sin’s grip (John 8:36). We are free to live an eternal life. It’s God’s gift to us.

      With this gift of eternal life, we can now begin to leave our old life behind and walk in the freedom of God’s grace. Jesus begins a new work in us. Does this mean we will never sin again? Don’t I wish! We were all born with a sin nature so it’s only natural to sin. As a Christian it is important to remember that when (yep, I said when not if) we fall into sin we don’t have to go back to the guilt-filled prison cell because we have already been set free in Christ. We can pick ourselves up and continue to move forward being transformed by God’s grace. It is so important to stay in the Word and learn everything we can…this will bring us into a closer relationship with Christ everyday. With the Holy Spirit as our guide to help us through our daily experiences, we can live the way Christ intend us to life…fully alive without guilt or shame.
      I like to keep the picture of Peter walking on water in my mind. When Peter fixed his eyes on Jesus he could walk on water. It was only when he looked at the circumstances surrounding him that he was overcome and fell (Matthew 14:28 – 30). I encourage you today to keep your eyes on Jesus; don’t let the distractions of this world take your focus away from Him.

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    • Fairness or Grace?

      Posted at 7:00 am by sneuhofer, on February 14, 2018
      Romans 5:8 But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

      We were all born with a sin nature. That was tough for me to wrap my brain around the first time I heard it because my thought was “I was just born, how could I have possibly sinned already?” Have you ever thought about looking back in the Bible to see where our sin nature began? In Romans 5, Paul compares the acts of Adam and the acts of Christ. I had never considered comparing the two until I read this chapter in Romans. One man, Adam, brought the entire world into sin and ultimately death (Genesis 3:19).

      When seriously looking at this point, some may wonder why we would be considered guilty for something Adam did thousands of years ago. After all, we didn’t sin in the Garden of Eden that day right? Why would we have to pay for what Adam did? That just doesn’t seem fair does it? To answer this question it may help to consider it this way. Adam was the first man to ever walk the earth, and it’s through his lineage we all came into existence. We are all part of his physical family. Because of this, we’ve all been born with a bit of a “rebellion” in us. Oh sure, we may not have been with him when he bit into the apple, but we have all inherited his guilt; his sinful nature. Because of this sin we are all are separated from God.

      When God created us, He wanted us to be in relationship with Him. When God placed Adam and Eve in the Garden, He showed His love for them by giving them the freedom to choose. But with all choices come consequences. Because they chose poorly that day, God had to punish them by banishing them from the lush garden He provided for them. That didn’t mean He stopped loving them. He loved them so much He began to lay the foundation to bring them back to Him. Adam, who introduced the sin nature by his disobedience, points to the One who ultimately paid the price once and for all for our sin.

      God loved us so much that while we were deep rooted in all our sin, Christ died for us. Because of our own sin, it’s not fairness we need, its mercy and grace.

      “There’s no comparison between that death-dealing sin and this generous, life-giving gift. The verdict on that one sin was the death sentence; the verdict on the many sins that followed was this wonderful life sentence. If death got the upper hand through one man’s wrongdoing, can you imagine the breathtaking recovery life makes, sovereign life, in those who grasp with both hands this wildly extravagant life-gift, this grand setting-everything-right, that the one man Jesus Christ provides?” Romans 5:15-15 (MSG)

      Thank you Lord that you don’t give up on us when we are deep rooted in our sin. Thank you for your mercy and grace and above all, thank you for sending Jesus to earth so that He could pay the ultimate sacrifice for our sin and provide a way back to you. Amen.

      Related scripture: John 8:31-36; Galatians 5:19-26

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    • There are angels among us!

      Posted at 7:00 am by sneuhofer, on February 13, 2018

      Psalm 91:11 – 12 (HCSB) “For He will give His angels orders concerning you, to protect you in all your ways. They will support you with their hands so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.”

      It’s so comforting to know that Jesus sends his angels to watch over us. We all walk through various “seasons” in our life. Some good and others we feel are downright impossible. As a Christian, I know I can rejoice and find peace during the more difficult times because I know the God who created the universe loves me with an everlasting love (Jeremiah 31:3), has a purpose for my life (Jeremiah 29:11),and will use the tough times to bring good according to his purposes (Romans 8:28). Because I know this, I can be comforted in the fact that I’m being guarded during the tough times by His heavenly angels.

      In December of 2010, I believe with all my heart God chose to reveal the words of Psalm 91:11 to me by sending an angel to help me in a time of desperate need. I had gone into Target for what was supposed to be a “reward” purchase for my 5 year old son. That week, he successfully completed 5 days of getting ready for school on time, and stayed on “green light” at school. My son’s behavior was improving, and the trip to Target was the motivator. Well that was at least until we began to negotiate the rules of the reward.

      I told my son he could choose from any toy $10 or under. I felt this was a reasonable price to reward his efforts for listening to both me and his teacher. As he started to carefully scan the shelves for the perfect toy, his eyes quickly went to what was right in front of him or below him on the bottom shelves. I encouraged him to look for a toy on the upper shelves because they were all in his reward price range. That will fact didn’t seem to matter, his eyes were drawn to the bigger toys right in front of him on the shelf. Retailers are great marketers, putting the most expensive toys at a 5 year old’s eye level is a brilliant sales tactic (of course as a mother of a very strong-willed child I have to disagree.)

      As he searched, he pointed to things that were clearly out of the reward limit. Each time, I encouraged him with a toy within his spending range. The more I showed him acceptable toys, the angrier he became. He wanted something different, more expensive. He didn’t want what I was showing him. He wanted a bigger reward. At this point his behavior became something not worth ANY reward. Seeing enough, I told him we were leaving immediately and to follow me out of the store. It would have been so nice if he would have just cooperated. But he didn’t. His tantrum got worse and he began to yell and scream. I would love to tell you that I remained calm and walked my tantrum-driven child out of the store – but I didn’t. My blood pressure shot through the roof. I needed help and I needed it right then!

      I stood there not having a clue what to do so I turned to the best parent I knew for advice. “Father, I have no idea what to do in this situation. I don’t want to respond to his anger with anger. I can’t control his hitting and kicking me – he’s too strong for me to pick up and carry out of here. Help me because I have no clue.”

      After the quick prayer, I began what seemed to be a full-fledged pilgrimage to the front of the store. Every step I took I thought “Lord please help me to my car so I can get this kid home and I will deal with him there.” My son stood there, mid-isle, yelling at the top of his lungs for me. I just kept walking and praying. When I got too far from my son’s comfort zone, he ran after me always keeping me in eye shot. This 60 second walk from the toy isle to the front of the store seemed like a trek across the Sahara desert. Finally, I could see an end of the journey…the automatic doors were opening and my car was just across the crosswalk in the parking lot.

      In a last ditch effort to stop me from getting out of the store, my son attached himself to my leg and wouldn’t let go. Walking, as you can well imagine, was next to impossible. I sent up another quick prayer “Lord…again I have no clue here. I need your help right now.” With every ounce of energy I could muster, I began to drag my son toward the automatic doors. Stopping just before the sidewalk, I asked him to get up and walk to the car warning him that if I had to drag him across the pavement, it ruin his clothes and give him a bad case of road rash. He didn’t flinch.

      As I stood there, 5 year old still attached, I tried to calm myself down by people watching. All types of thoughts ran through my head. I felt inadequate as a parent, completely out of control, and like everyone was looking at me. I wanted to cry. I wanted to scream. I really wanted to leave Target and never return. Negativity swirled. “Lord, please help!”

      I believe He did just that. In the next few moments, my attention was distracted from my current “situation” by a man exiting Target carrying a single gallon of milk. “Huh? Who goes to Target for one gallon of milk? On a good day, I can’t get out of Target for less than $100?” My eyes followed this man across the crosswalk and into the parking lot. “Odd.” My focus returned to my son but the thought lingered.

      I tried once again to get my son to the car but before I could respond to his outburst, I heard “Ma’am, do you need help with something?” turning I came face to face with the gallon-of-milk guy. (Yes – he was still holding the jug of milk.)

      “I noticed you were having a hard time, can I stand with your son so you can go get your car?” The words coming out of this man’s mouth were so filled with compassion. The situation turned from pure chaos to peace in an instant. I didn’t even give his offer a thought “that would be so helpful, thank you.” With that, I broke free from the 5-year old appendage and walked the remaining 15 steps to my car. It didn’t dawn on me that I was leaving my child in the hands of a complete stranger. There was peace…unexplainable peace.

      The man didn’t lay one finger on my son. He just stood there…gallon of milk in hand…trying to talk to him. When I pulled up with the car, I jumped out to open the rear door. The man helped my son into the car and before he shut the door he said “Son, you need to listen to your mother, understand? Moms always know what’s best for us, ok?” With that, he shut the door.

      On the drive home, I tried to process what had just happened. I was 100% at peace. I am convinced this man was an angel. God sent him to “intervene” in this situation, and for that I am thankful.

      What about you? Have you ever experienced something odd like this in the midst of a difficult situation? Perhaps it was someone just saying an encouraging word, or showing up when no one else should be there.

      Be encouraged today. God is with us.

      Related reading
      1 Kings 19:5, Daniel 6:22, Matthew 18:10, Luke 16:22, Acts 12:7)

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